Thursday, October 13, 2011
Caged and in Control
My “not so dominant” wife has been slowly progressing in her dominance. Without much fanfare she has taken full control of our sex life. I’ve often thanked her for taking control, with J giving me a nice positive purr in response. I am embracing my submissive feelings and loving my lack of control. There have been a few times where I really thought something was going to happen, and then she changed her mind. This can be exciting and frustrating at times, but I'm thrilled that she is starting to truly feel in control. She allows sex when she wants it. J is no longer asking “will you be okay waiting?” I don’t know when I will be allowed to pleasure her, and have no clue when she will allow “her” cock to spurt. And unsure of when she will allow me inside of her. That’s how I want it, and I am now getting it. I’m becoming used to only 1 and sometimes 2 orgasms in any given week. I’ve had 3 orgasms so far this month, of which only 2 were allowed. I don’t track mine or hers, but I think J has had 5 orgasms. I’ve been locked almost full-time the past several days and haven’t been out of the cage at all for the past 48 hours. The cock has never been locked as much as in the past month. J is clearly becoming more comfortable keeping her cock in the cage. I’m not sure if I’ve ever been happier in our marriage.
As for the wife led marriage, we are also making progress there. All I’m really doing is as much for her as I can. J loves it and has been happy to have me run around for her, at home and otherwise. She wanted a cold glass of water in the middle of the night a few nights ago when I was unlocked. I went into the kitchen to get it for her as her cock bobbed up and down, nearly fully erect as I served her. Our cocks don’t lie, they do let us know what we like! I often harden in the device as I take care of J. For those of you that worry about turning into some sort of jellyfish if you submit to your wife…it hasn’t happened. I haven’t turned into a wimp, I just try to anticipate her needs. That’s been the key. J doesn’t need the extra work of figuring out what to do with her submissive husband. Her submissive husband (me) anticipates what I can do for her. Of course, she knows I’ll take care of whatever she asks, too. We don’t talk about the whole WLM thing much, but she knows she’s in charge and can make a decision when she wants.
The FLR poll closed a few days ago, and nearly 80% of voters were in a female led relationship...wow! Did I already say that?!?! The numbers didn’t vary much throughout the poll. That said, I’m curious about the wives/girlfriends in those relationships. How “domme" are the women? I’m putting a new poll up to see what readers have to say. I’m also thinking about adding another poll about your favorite kinks/fantasies. Well, I'm pretty sure my readers kink on chastity and maybe femdom. So I'd give you a few other choices!