Thursday, January 14, 2016

International Male Chastity Day?

I was perusing Tumblr and see some posts about today being International Male Chastity Day.  Anyone heard of this?  It's news to me.  Funny thing is my wife let me out last night and insisted I cum today after 5 days!  Came nice and hard inside her early this morning.  Have a feeling she will have me lock-up tomorrow.

Sunday, January 10, 2016

Second Lover for Her and More Chastity for Me

It took several months to happen, but my wife recently played with another lover.  We found him on…gasp…Ashley Madison a couple months ago.  We chatted with him for about two months before our schedules aligned for a drink only meeting.  He is often traveling for work, so not that easy to setup.  The drink meet went well, and a date was set for a couple weeks later for the first play date.  Her second lover is a very respectful and personable guy.  J is not attracted to him as much as the first guy, but she likes him and had a great time.  We were tight on time for this date, so only had about two hours for playtime.  He was more hung than her first lover, with a thick 7" cock.  As I may have mentioned in past posts, I'm not small at 6-6½ inches, but I'm not thick.  J has never climaxed from penetration, but enjoyed some different pleasurable sensations from her new lovers thick cock.  I enjoyed her moans as he thrusted into her.  I stayed close to her, often kissing her and holding her hand as he pleasured her.   Like the first time, it was very erotic for both of us.  Unlike the first guy that faded away, we do anticipate more dates with him.  We'll call him Dave (not his real name).  There is also another gentleman we met for a drink over the summer that is in the mix, we'll call him Brad (also, not his real name).  J is more attracted to Brad, and is eager to play with him.  He is another business man that is often on the road, but we're looking at an early February date if everything comes together.  So things are going very well in terms of my liberated hotwife enjoying herself, and of course, me enjoying this fun with her. 

As we entered the New Year, I told J that I would love to feel more "kept" by her, and encouraged her to keep me chaste and wanting more often.  I love when she cums for "both of us"…so erotic!  She is already doing this, and I've been kept locked more in the past week, than I was in the last 2-3 months of 2015.  I'm not hoping for anything extreme, but was feeling a bit jealous of the "more kept" cuckolds I read about in other blogs, etc.  So far, so good!  I feel the energy coursing through me, even as I type this…locked away for my gorgeous, sexy wife! :)

Thursday, November 5, 2015

FLR Update

I haven’t addressed where we stand on the dynamics of our relationship outside of cuckolding in a long time.  We were talking not long ago about this.  While it’s not hardcore femdom by any measure, we agree we live in a female led relationship.  It’s our own flavor of FLR, as it should be.  We are very much in love and function as a team, making most decisions together.  However, in many ways, J leads and I tend to be submissive to her wants and needs.  I do the vast majority of the housework (laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc.).  When dinner is done, she gets up and I clean-up.  I run the laundry and fold it.  I run her errands whenever possible.  And in the bedroom, her pleasure comes first.  J loves to give me pleasure and always will, but has become comfortable denying me when she feels like it, and if she is tired is happy to have me pleasure her to orgasm, then go to sleep"I'm tired, but you can go down on me".  It’s not like that too often, as she does love to have me cum.  I also rarely cum without her permission.  We like it that way.  We use a chastity device sometimes, too.  She is very giving though and allows me some pleasures that most wives would not.  I’m not allowed the pleasure of being with other women, and don’t want that anyway, but she allows me to fantasize about other women we know on occasion.  This has been fun and very exciting, particularly since she allows it and seems to enjoy giving me this unique pleasure.  She, of course, is allowed to and does play with other men though cuckolding is still very new for us.  In the limited experience we’ve had, I truly loved seeing her enjoy another man and she loves that attention. It's pretty intoxicating.  

We’ve found the dynamics that work for us.  It’s fulfilling for both of us.  We’re very happy with where we are right now and I don’t see the dynamics changing much in the near future.  

Wednesday, October 7, 2015


I want to experience this with my wife and her lover.  I can only imagine what a "mind fuck" it would be.  She said she'd also like to try it, too!

Thursday, October 1, 2015

October Update

Thought I'd put up a quick update.  It's been a little over two months since I officially became J’s cuckold.  There was no repeat with her first lover due to issues surrounding his wife, so he will not likely be with my wife again.  We've been actively looking for another lover for her, and she's been chatting with a few different guys.  Many have fallen off for one reason or another.  Not as easy to find a good lover for my wife as you might think!  Right now, there are three possible guys in the mix, and one she likes in particular.  Hopefully, we will meet him for a drink soon.  He is married, but they have a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy about playing outside the marriage.  He’s never been with a hotwife/cuckold couple, which we prefer. 

Our sex has been fantastic since we started the hotwifing/cuckolding journey.  At one point, we were even playing twice a day!  The initial excitement has settled down a little, but we’re still having frequent sex.  I think we've both acclimated to this new dynamic in our relationship.  J hasn’t been keeping me chaste often, but decided to not permit me to orgasm last night, meaning I’ve had only one orgasm the past 3 days, which has not been the norm lately.  I’ve been climaxing probably 8-9 times a week recently, so her deciding to keep my cuckold penis in chastity has been a bit different.  I was in my Steelworxx Looker 3 yesterday, but she let me out today, though she reminded me I’m still not allowed to orgasm.  I don’t really mind, I still enjoy her controlling my release, maybe even more so as my newly minted hotwife!  And I gave her two intense orgasms in the past 24 hours, so no complaints from this cuckold hubby.

Sunday, August 2, 2015

New Chapter

Well, things went as planned, and I became my wife's cuckold earlier this week.  I don't want to go into much detail, preferring to keep the details private, but it was a fantastic evening.  It went about 4 hours and things went very well, considering it was our first time, and her lover was completely inexperienced with couples.  She truly enjoyed the additional male attention, and it was incredible fun for all of us.  I also participated and enjoyed my wife's beautiful body throughout the evening.  We're both very happy, and are excited about this new chapter in our married life.