Thursday, November 5, 2015

FLR Update

I haven’t addressed where we stand on the dynamics of our relationship outside of cuckolding in a long time.  We were talking not long ago about this.  While it’s not hardcore femdom by any measure, we agree we live in a female led relationship.  It’s our own flavor of FLR, as it should be.  We are very much in love and function as a team, making most decisions together.  However, in many ways, J leads and I tend to be submissive to her wants and needs.  I do the vast majority of the housework (laundry, cleaning, cooking, etc.).  When dinner is done, she gets up and I clean-up.  I run the laundry and fold it.  I run her errands whenever possible.  And in the bedroom, her pleasure comes first.  J loves to give me pleasure and always will, but has become comfortable denying me when she feels like it, and if she is tired is happy to have me pleasure her to orgasm, then go to sleep"I'm tired, but you can go down on me".  It’s not like that too often, as she does love to have me cum.  I also rarely cum without her permission.  We like it that way.  We use a chastity device sometimes, too.  She is very giving though and allows me some pleasures that most wives would not.  I’m not allowed the pleasure of being with other women, and don’t want that anyway, but she allows me to fantasize about other women we know on occasion.  This has been fun and very exciting, particularly since she allows it and seems to enjoy giving me this unique pleasure.  She, of course, is allowed to and does play with other men though cuckolding is still very new for us.  In the limited experience we’ve had, I truly loved seeing her enjoy another man and she loves that attention. It's pretty intoxicating.  

We’ve found the dynamics that work for us.  It’s fulfilling for both of us.  We’re very happy with where we are right now and I don’t see the dynamics changing much in the near future.  

Wednesday, October 7, 2015


I want to experience this with my wife and her lover.  I can only imagine what a "mind fuck" it would be.  She said she'd also like to try it, too!

Thursday, October 1, 2015

October Update

Thought I'd put up a quick update.  It's been a little over two months since I officially became J’s cuckold.  There was no repeat with her first lover due to issues surrounding his wife, so he will not likely be with my wife again.  We've been actively looking for another lover for her, and she's been chatting with a few different guys.  Many have fallen off for one reason or another.  Not as easy to find a good lover for my wife as you might think!  Right now, there are three possible guys in the mix, and one she likes in particular.  Hopefully, we will meet him for a drink soon.  He is married, but they have a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy about playing outside the marriage.  He’s never been with a hotwife/cuckold couple, which we prefer. 

Our sex has been fantastic since we started the hotwifing/cuckolding journey.  At one point, we were even playing twice a day!  The initial excitement has settled down a little, but we’re still having frequent sex.  I think we've both acclimated to this new dynamic in our relationship.  J hasn’t been keeping me chaste often, but decided to not permit me to orgasm last night, meaning I’ve had only one orgasm the past 3 days, which has not been the norm lately.  I’ve been climaxing probably 8-9 times a week recently, so her deciding to keep my cuckold penis in chastity has been a bit different.  I was in my Steelworxx Looker 3 yesterday, but she let me out today, though she reminded me I’m still not allowed to orgasm.  I don’t really mind, I still enjoy her controlling my release, maybe even more so as my newly minted hotwife!  And I gave her two intense orgasms in the past 24 hours, so no complaints from this cuckold hubby.

Sunday, August 2, 2015

New Chapter

Well, things went as planned, and I became my wife's cuckold earlier this week.  I don't want to go into much detail, preferring to keep the details private, but it was a fantastic evening.  It went about 4 hours and things went very well, considering it was our first time, and her lover was completely inexperienced with couples.  She truly enjoyed the additional male attention, and it was incredible fun for all of us.  I also participated and enjoyed my wife's beautiful body throughout the evening.  We're both very happy, and are excited about this new chapter in our married life.

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Cuckolding Update

I can't say how much updating I will, or won't, do on my defunct blog, but here goes for now:

We have a play date set for early this week with a man to join us.  Unless he backs out, before the week is out, my beautiful wife will be a hotwife and I will be her cuckold.  We're both excited, that can't be denied.  I expect to both watch, and probably participate some in the fun, though I don't expect we will have sex until after he leaves.  I will not be locked, nor do I want to be, especially for this first time.  We don't use the cage much these days anyway.  We are both going to refrain from sex and orgasm for two days before the date so we have some extra desire and energy, even though that is not likely to be an issue!

There are also some other men in the cue we have been chatting with, so it is very likely there will be others, too.  We have discussed this at long length and we both like the idea of her having a stable of maybe 3 men to play with.  She wants a little variety, and I think that is a great idea.  I want her to truly enjoy the whole experience.  With our chaotic schedules, it is likely to only happen once, maybe twice a month at best...and potentially having three guys to call might work better anyway.  That's the latest in our world.

Monday, July 13, 2015

Going to be a cuckold!

Not updating the blog these days, but just wanted to say my wife, J, is going to become a hotwife…probably very soon.  Yes, I will be her cuckold.  Very exciting times!