Thought I’d write up a quick update. Overall, things are good in Locked Husband land, though we seem to be having trouble finding good lovers for my wife. Only one of her lovers is still in the mix. He was her second lover. Only one play date with him so far, but another is likely to happen this month. He’s a class act, though J’s attraction to him is only about a 7-8 on a scale of 1-10. We would be thrilled to find her a guy that really gets her hot and bothered, but that’s been tough to find thus far. We did meet a new guy for a drink earlier this week, and we both liked him. He’s new to the hotwife/cuckold dynamic, and he’s gone quiet, so we’re thinking he might be bailing already. Too bad, as she liked him and he seemed like a quality guy. We’ve met a few guys for drinks since my last post, and most just didn’t work for her tastes, and one bailed right in the middle of the meet. Think it was a bad case of nerves! There is one other that is still a possibility, but he seems high-maintenance. Not sure if we have the patience to deal with him. We’ll see what happens, as he also wants to move slow. Otherwise, getting mostly flakes. They chat, then seem to disappear. Not even making it to the point of meeting for a drink. Truly amazing how hard it is to find a good man to have sex with my wife!
As for our sex life, things have been great, minus a couple lulls due to work, etc. Last week was great, lots of intimacy. Even with the long gap since the last play date, we’re both still enjoying the cuckold lifestyle. We’re extremely comfortable in our roles as hotwife and cuckold. We’re coming up on a year since that exciting first night, and neither of us have any regrets. Moving forward, we’d like to find her at least a couple steady lovers. Easier said, than done. I’d say we have one now, but his availability is limited, and it’s been a few months since we played. That’s too long. We want one, maybe two play dates a month. That would be perfect.